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I love the varied
dynamics of Ecclesiastes 4. We get a
perspective on age and wisdom mixed with youth and receptivity. We get chance to think about
companionship. There is a perspective on
human oppression. There is the natural
continued perspective on toil.
Start there
first. We receive two pieces of wisdom
regarding toil. First, toil and work
come from envy after what another one has.
While I’m not sure I quite fully buy into the absolute nature of this
saying, I do think it has much merit. If I think about many of the things that
I am good at doing, it is because I saw it in other people and I wanted to be
good in it as well. Most of my skills
come because I saw them on display in other people. On that level, the saying is true.
I like the
second saying even better. It is better
to have a single handful of quietness than two handfuls of toil and striving
after wind. In other words, it is good to
know one’s limitations and then accept them.
It is good to reach for the stars and know when you’ve peaked. Striving after the unattainable is not
striving at all. It is an exercise in
frustration.
Look at the
perspective on companionship. If a
person falls into a pit and they are alone, what will they do? But if they have a companion, they can be
rescued. It’s always good to have a
second perspective. When things go
wrong, and they will to varying degrees, we want to be able to get advice, get
help, and have some cheer for us and help us get back to our feet. Companionship – genuine friendship – is a
great blessing in life.
Then there
is my favorite passage of the chapter. A
young an who can take advice is better than a wise old man who can’t. So often we berate the young for their
inexperience and foolishness. Sometimes,
it’s genuinely deserved. Yet, there is something
I’ve learned as a high school teacher.
My teenagers can admit when they are wrong and outclassed. They can admit when they’ve gotten a thing or
two to learn. They can embrace their
growing edges! The danger with growing
old is that we learn to be blind to our growing edges. We think that in our wisdom our growing edges
shrink.
In truth,
They shouldn’t. Think about a physical
example. Let’s say my maturity is equal
to a sphere. As I grow, the sphere becomes
bigger. But, that means that the surface
area of the sphere because greater and a far faster rate than the radius
does! The bigger the sphere gets, the
greater the need for more paint to cover it.
In other words, the greater the area for growth!
So it is
with human beings. As I get older, I get
more experience. Yes, I do become wiser
in the ways that used to trip me up.
However, as wise as I get in the old struggles, I have that many more
new areas in which to struggle! Growing
older is an excuse to become more receptive to advice, not an excuse to become
less receptive. I pray that I will
always be open to a friendly critique.
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